(For Men – including Trans Men)

An online space for reflection, honesty, and integrity

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In a world shaped by #MeToo, the manosphere, attacks on women’s and trans rights, and the ongoing impact of the Epstein files, there are few spaces where men can come together without judgement to reflect, to feel, and to make sense of it all.

Recent events have raised difficult questions about power, sexuality and accountability.

Many thoughtful men feel something when cases like these emerge - anger, sadness, confusion, shame. And yet there are very few places to speak about it openly.

Men don’t want to be lectured.
And many don’t want to turn away either.

But they are not always sure how to step in.

This space is for that.

What this space is

A guided, non-judgemental online session for men who want to engage honestly with what is happening, internally and in the world around them.

A space to:

• Reflect on the impact of what’s happening for you as a brother, father, son, partner and colleague
• Explore what’s being stirred emotionally, including discomfort, anger, sadness, shame or numbness
• Look at how silence, power and complicity operate, often unconsciously, and how you can shift that
• Consider what integrity and support for others might look like in practice
• Explore what it means to stand alongside and support survivors

Together we will also explore questions such as:

• What reactions arise in men when abuses of power come to light?
• Why do many men struggle to speak about these things openly?
• What messages about power, masculinity and sexuality did we grow up with?
• What might integrity look like in times like these?

You do not need to have answers. Curiosity is enough.

Why this matters

I’ve had an unprecedented response to my article,
The Epstein Files and the Question of Power (5-minute read):

People of all genders reached out, and men expressed a need for a space like this, where they can reflect, process, and make sense of what’s happening.

How men meet moments like this shapes trust, safety, and intimacy in all relationships.

In a world where power has so often been misused, developing awareness, consent, and integrity is essential.

This is how these conversations move out of the headlines and into how we choose to actually live and relate to each other as humans.

And right now, this matters; reclaiming our capacity for awareness, consent, and integrity may be one of the most revolutionary things we can do right now.

Cultural change happens when thoughtful men step forward, feel what is present for them, and choose to grow.

Who this is for

This space is for men who:

• Feel the weight of these times and don’t want to turn away
• Care about how they impact others
• Are open to self-reflection, even when it’s uncomfortable
• Want to grow in integrity, without needing to be perfect
• Are willing to listen to each other, not just speak

You don’t need prior experience.
Just a willingness to show up honestly.

What to expect

1. Opening reflection
Why this conversation matters now.
2. Guided self-reflection
Exploring personal responses to power and responsibility.
3. Small group conversations
Men speaking honestly with other men.
4. Insights from Sian
Understanding power, patriarchy and sexual integrity.
5. Integration
What responsible masculinity looks like in practice.

This will be a structured, facilitated session with:

• Clear guidance and boundaries to support safety and choice
• Opportunities for reflection, sharing (always optional), and listening
• Trauma-aware facilitation
• A pace that supports staying within your capacity

You choose how you participate at all times.

A note on tone

This is not a space for debate, performance or defensiveness. It is not about analysing specific cases. It is also not a space for excusing harmful behaviour or minimising the impact on survivors. Nor is it about blaming all men.

This is a space for presence, honesty and responsibility. It's an invitation to move from silence or shame toward awareness, integrity and meaningful action.

Practical details

Tuesday 21^st April 7–8:30pm UK time
1.5 hours
Online (Zoom)

Limited places to support depth and quality of space.

To protect confidentiality, this event will not be recorded.

Please arrive on time as the room will close at 7pm.

This is a paid space. Not to create a barrier, but to support commitment and depth.

Prices:
£20 Supporter Rate
£15 Regular Rate
£10 Supported Rate
Booking Link: https://csservices.as.me/GoodMen

It requires courage to stay present in difficult times.
Not turning away.
Not rushing to fix.
But meeting what’s here, with honesty.
If that speaks to you, you’re welcome here.

About Sian

Sian is a Consent Trainer, Tantra teacher, Psychotherapist (in advanced training), and is best known for her work as an intimacy coach for men.

Having worked with men over the past decade, she brings deep insight into the challenges many men face in a fast-paced world that no longer aligns with the values they were raised with.

In the current landscape, where conversations around gender, power, relationships, and identity are often polarised, many men find themselves caught between confusion, pressure, and silence. This can lead to disconnection in relationships, dissatisfaction, and a loss of direction.

Much of Sian’s work is now centred on supporting men to navigate this complexity with greater awareness, integrity, and relational skill.

This is why she has created this space, a non-judgemental environment where men can pause, reflect, and begin to find their own way forward.